Can AI Help Us Do Better?
The technology is here. The harder question is what kind of people we'll be while we use it.
Barry 20 May 2026 2 min read Opinion I work in technology, so I get asked some version of this a lot: is AI going to save us or sink us? It’s the wrong question. AI is a tool. Tools amplify whoever’s holding them. The real question is who’s holding it, and to what end.
What it genuinely helps with
Let’s be fair to the technology. Used well, it can flatten barriers that used to keep people out. Someone who struggles to write can be understood. Someone who can’t afford an expert can get a starting point. A small business — I run one — can do things that used to need a whole team. That’s real, and dismissing it is just a different kind of denial.
Where the risks actually live
The risks people fear are usually cinematic — machines deciding to replace us. The risks that matter are quieter and already here: decisions made about you by a system you can’t see or question, data about your life collected and sold, work reshaped faster than people can adapt, and a flood of convincing nonsense that makes it harder to know what’s true.
None of those are science fiction. They’re design choices and policy choices, made by people, right now.
Ethics can’t be the last slide
In tech we have a bad habit of treating ethics as the closing slide — something you mention after the product ships. But by then the harm is baked in. Privacy, fairness, and accountability either shape a system from the start or they get bolted on as damage control.
For everyday people, this isn’t abstract. It shows up as whether your loan gets approved, whether your data is safe, whether you can tell a real message from a fake one. You don’t need to understand the maths to have a stake in the answers.
So — can it help us do better?
Yes. But not on its own, and not automatically. A tool that amplifies us will amplify our worst instincts just as happily as our best ones. Whether AI helps us do better depends on a deeply unfashionable, very human variable: whether we choose to.
I’d rather we made that choice on purpose, with our eyes open, than discovered later that it got made for us.
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